“You need surgery.” Those words can spark a jumble of emotions in someone. Even someone with three decades of experience in the nursing profession. How many times have I recited the risks of a surgical procedure to the people in my care prior to their own surgeries? They have been too many times to count.
The same feelings of uncertainty can be felt with any illness or medical procedure. We silently wonder at what will be found and how it will affect our daily lives. We worry about how our family will cope if we are unable to work or perform the daily tasks they depend on us to complete for them. In today’s fast-paced world our families are busy and spread out across the country. A health complication might mean a stay in a rehabilitation center or care center if the patient needs assistance during their recovery.
When you read this blog, I will be in surgery having a total knee replacement. It’s a commonplace surgery and has been performed since the Sixties, but when it’s your surgery that feels different. My unknown future and the lack of control are at the top of my list of worries.
As we progress through life, we face challenges and need to make decisions regarding our futures. We have some control over those decisions, but the outcomes are not guaranteed. You can do everything right and still not attain your goal. When you place your life and your health in the hands of the medical staff, you give up some of that control.
You can pick your doctor, your hospital and can make the decision to have the procedure. You can do background checks to see if the medical center has a good rating and your physician is certified and has a good reputation, but you can’t control the randomness of life.
I often recite two sayings and these little ditties guide my general philosophy of life. They are: It is what it is and If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. The first one is a cliché that might imply you don’t think you can fix the issues in your life, but to me, it means that sometimes life has moments where the only control you have is over your response. The second phrase coined by Woody Allen reflects on how something can still come to pass despite all we do to prevent such an outcome.
How am I dealing with my pending surgery? I have my will and health care power of attorney completed. I’m eating as healthy as I can, doing the isometric exercises my physician recommended prior to surgery, and I’m keeping a positive attitude.
My positive attitude is all I really have control over now, during and after.
OMP Admin Note: Kate McGinn is a writer and OMP Network member – one of a group of networkers who will be blogging on a regular basis on various causes and issues. Kate hopes to spread awareness of the issue of American Veterans returning home to less help than they deserve. EMMAUS is one of the two main charities we are supporting.
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